just a random thought about why couples quarrel. Whenever people get into relationships, their expectation of the other party automatically raised and they tend to have more disagreement than before. but why then in the first place be together if all they did after being together was to quarrel? why not cherish the time you get to spend with that person and just be happy that you're able to spend time with that special someone? why learn to criticize instead of loving and accepting them for who they are which was what originally made them special amongst the rest?

i dun wanna make life difficult for pple whom i cared about anymore. no more. i wanna treasure them. don't try to change them and make them suit you. why not make changes to yourself to suit them and accept them for who they are?