he pasted this to me on msn. he wanna show kim but it's too long to paste on the tagboard (OBVIOUSLY). so i shall help him this once. on account that he helped me countless times. hahaha.
so here it goes..
「放下」是一件很難做到的事情。做不到「放下」就是「放不下」，「放不下」另一名稱是「執著」。
其實，「拿得起，放得下。」這句名言，我們很少時已聽過。但....說容易，做很難。「拿起容易，放下難。」
「放下」最佳方法是順其自然，待時間去淡忘、去治療心靈傷痛。
而當我們要自己一次、一次又一次去面對一個早已知道的事實；直到有一天，已經不再那麼痛、那麼辛苦；
直到有一天，發覺原來很久沒有再想起那件事、或那個人的時候，那就是「放下」了。
~dedicated to kim by PONG.
in my opinion, to put it in a more comforting manner, it's not that hard to let go and move on. and many times, before you even realise it, you've alr move on. no point feeling sad la. save some pride for yourself man. wish him the best. be gracious. why gei gao with him?
wah lau. another one he just pasted on my msn. i totally agree with this. so i shall do him another favour. hehe.
要忘記一個你深愛過的人嗎？為甚麼要忘記？ 為了自己不痛苦？或是其他原因? 經歷過，付出過，就是得到，要令自己釋懷，不一定要忘記。而是確定了她的而且確是我生命中的一部分，但愛，不是對或錯，也不用是用理性去衡量的。放開,，是自己要做到的事，而非去忘記或去恨她。
不要白活！one day, you will realise that you ought to thank him, for teaching you something money can't buy.
this post was too lengthy so decided to cut it short since kim had alr read it.
